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Choreographing meaningful goodbyes

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Veronica Bardsley

04 November 2023, 1:05 AM

Choreographing meaningful goodbyes

From angelic movements to angels, former Australian ballet dancer Alexa Heckmann has taken on a new endeavour. She's now behind Private Cremation Services, an independent Australian funeral provider. Their focus is on offering affordable direct cremations for families in NSW and the ACT, as an alternative to conventional funerals.



Over her decade-long career in the funeral sector, Alexa, founder, saw that families were increasingly looking to commemorate in different, unstructured ways, particularly after Covid, and the funeral industry was not changing to meet those needs. "I felt that the sector had become obsessed with itself: the shiny hearses, the expensive coffins, the funeral directors parading about in their suits with inflexible judgments about what a funeral 'should' be," Alexa says, "Microcosms within communities are searching for alternatives within the structure of the funerals they are familiar with. There is a place for traditional practices, but there is also capacity for change and growth within the structure of the standard portfolio we have historically offered families."



With a profound commitment to empathy, transparency, and integrity, she founded Private Cremation Services to offer a unique perspective on saying goodbye to loved ones. The driving force behind Alexa's endeavour is her unwavering belief that funerals should revolve around the individual and their memories, not flash, profit-seeking business models. Her service encompasses every aspect of the process, from transfers and paperwork to cremation and the return of ashes, as well as a 24/7 support line, ensuring that families can focus on commemorating their loved ones in their own way.


What sets Alexa's approach apart is her dedication to creating a service that is profoundly human. She adamantly states, "We're not a faceless corporate entity driven by the demands of investors. Our goal is to make families feel deeply cared for and heard, not to impose a profit-driven narrative upon them." Her commitment to personalised, compassionate service challenges the industry's traditional norms.



The transition from a professional ballet dancer to a funeral director might seem unconventional, but for Alexa, it was a calling she couldn't ignore. She recalls being entrusted with directing the farewell of a dear friend and dance colleague early in her career shift, which solidified her belief that she had found her life's work. "For many dancers," Alexa notes, "transitioning to a new career is often met with apprehension and disappointment. Our society often views death as something unfamiliar and unsettling, and it may have seemed as though I was turning my back on a well-established and respectable profession. But I knew it was the right choice. I've had the opportunity to bring a fresh perspective to an industry that, at times, seemed mired in outdated traditions."



With the launch of Private Cremation Services, Alexa remains dedicated to challenging the funeral industry to elevate its standards and provide better experiences for families. Her focus is on the customer's journey and creating a brand defined not by a superficial image, but by an unwavering commitment to who she is and what she represents.


Alexa Heckmann's Private Cremation Services is a testament to the power of a single individual to drive change. It's a reminder that sometimes the most profound and transformative innovations emerge from the unlikeliest of sources. As the funeral industry evolves, Alexa Heckmann's vision of personalised, empathetic, and transparent service provides a much-needed alternative for those seeking a more meaningful farewell for their loved ones.